We are all motivated by one or two things every single day of our lives. A student can be attending classes, studying really hard because he is motivated by the rewards giving at the end of the session, a worker can be motivated to go to work because of the huge salary he gets every time the month ends, a child can be motivated to get an ice-cream because of the satisfaction and pleasure he gets from it.
What is motivation?
Motivation is the reason or reasons for acting or behaving in a particular way. It is the process that commence, guides and maintains goal oriented behaviours.
Motivation activates a behaviour.
Forms Of Motivation.
• Extrinsic: It is when a person exhibits a behaviour because of extrinsic rewards. It involves cultivating and exhibiting a behaviour to either avoid being punished or to get a reward. For example, when you ask someone why they are studying so hard and the person tells you that they want to get a noble price from the school. That Nobel prize is the reward, that is what is driving the person to study so hard.
•Intrinsic: This is when a person is driven or motivated by the satisfaction and pleasure gotten rather than rewards. You are motivated to carry out these behaviours because of the love you have for it and because of internal rewards. For example, when a person is listening to music, it’s because of the pleasure and satisfaction gotten from the music.
• Family Motivation: This is driven by the desire to provide for the loved ones. Family motivation can be due to both intrinsic and extrinsic rewards. When you always want to see your family happy, you get pleasure from helping your family then that’s an intrinsic reward. Extrinsic rewards for example can be when you’re helping your family so you could fulfill obligations or when you know you are going to get an inheritance when you render much help.
There is something that always drives us to do something either when we find it pleasing or not, when it’s affecting us or not. All these are the types of motivation that can help us achieve a goal but is motivation enough? For us to achieve these goals, we need the perfect formula which is Motivation, Discipline and Consistency. Yes, motivation helps to initiate a behaviour but how can we continue with that behaviour if we are not disciplined?
Discipline is defined as training that corrects, molds, or perfects moral behaviour. When you are disciplined, you know that in order to be successful or achieve your goals successfully, you need to behave in a strictly controlled manner and obey particular rules and instructions. Discipline is getting it done because it needs to be done and not because you feel like it. Someone once said and I quote “Most people who are at the pinnacle of anything, had motivation as only one percent of the formula.” You thought motivation was the only formula, winners needs discipline.
Consistency simply means frequency. So you might feel motivated to do something, to exhibit a behaviour but once you leave out discipline and consistency, it might be difficult to achieve these things.